What Should a 35-Year-Old Man Put in His Dating Bio? (Examples Inside)

April 5, 2025

Let’s be honest...

If you’re 35 and on dating apps, there’s a good chance you’ve written a mini-resume in your bio:


“Entrepreneur. Love to travel. Gym rat. Dog dad. Looking for something real.”


And then... crickets.


The truth? Women don’t want your LinkedIn. They want something fun, flirty, and different.


In this article, we’ll break down exactly what a 35-year-old man should put in his dating bio to attract the right women — plus examples that have worked for our clients (and maybe a few that got us dates too 😉).

✅ Rule #1: Keep It Short

Women on dating apps are swiping fast. If your bio looks like a block of text, most will scroll right past you — no matter how impressive your job or hobbies are.

✅ Rule #1: Keep It Short

Keep it to 1-2 short sentences max. Think punchy. Think memorable.

✅ Rule #2: Make Her Smile, Not Scroll

A clever or playful line will do more for your match rate than a list of hobbies ever will.


Here’s what works for me:

Aspen, 27-year-old parkour coach from NorCal:

(Fun fact: all three are true — and women always message to figure it out.)

✅ Rule #3: Show Emotional Intelligence

You’re not 22. You’ve lived some life. Show that you’re relationship-minded without sounding desperate or boring.

✅ Rule #3: Show Emotional Intelligence

That one line? Signals maturity, self-awareness, and standards. Women love it.

✅ Rule #4: Be Relatable (and a Little Cheeky)

Sometimes the best bios are the ones that make her laugh and say “ugh, SAME.”

✅ Rule #4: Be Relatable (and a Little Cheeky)

Witty. Relatable. An instant conversation starter.

💡 Pro Tip: Bios Are Just the Beginning

Most 35-year-old guys make the mistake of spending too much time on their bio... and not enough on their photos.


And let’s be real — your profile is only as strong as your weakest pic.


That’s why we created the Wingman Plus Profile Makeover — a complete done-for-you service that includes:


✅ A dating app photoshoot tailored to your vibe
✅ A hand-picked selection of photos chosen by a panel of attractive women
✅ Editing and optimization based on the female gaze
✅ A 1-on-1 profile setup call with a professional coach
✅ Custom prompt writing that showcases your personality
✅ Strategy to match the kind of women you actually want

🎯 Final Thoughts

If you’re 35 and struggling on dating apps, it’s not your age.


It’s your approach.


You don’t need a paragraph. You need personality.


And with the right photos and bio? You’ll start matching women who are actually your type — and stop wasting time with the wrong ones.


Ready to Upgrade Your Profile?

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